Christina is affected by the social pressures that include: being judged and having to act a certain way dictated by their Italian culture, which results in her feeling alone and isolated from others. She is judged by her family and friends that are constantly questioning her morals and decisions. Due to her past mistake of having Josie so young Italians look at her life as a disgrace. She feels alone against all these pressures, which in return causes her to feel as if she has no choice in life and is isolated from people outside family. Even though the times ae different, she follows the life of an Italian during her mother’s young days. Christina is unable to speak against what the Italians believe is good, and allows this to determine her life and choices. “People will talk you know…People? What people? Italians? Mama, I …show more content…
(Marchetta, 95) The Italians judge her as she is already a disgrace for going against their values and beliefs. She feels restricted from the pressures and that her life doesn’t belong to her. She is pressured to make a good impression that will reflect on her family, in return she never is able to be happy will her life for she never wants to make another mistake again. Therefore Christina is affected by obligations and expectations of her family and culture, which in return influence her life and decisions and make her feel alone and isolated without a voice. Secondly, John Barton faces stress, depression and commits suicide from the pressures of having to uphold his reputation, achieving his parents’ expectations, and being perfect to society. Upholding his reputation causes him to stress about always being perfect, doing the right thing, and winning. Being in the elite community his reputation means everything to his family, for his success is their own. His parents
Throughout the essay, Roman deliberates certain "unacceptable actions. " These certain unacceptable actions included borrowing clothes, sleepovers, and Sunday work, conflict with her mom's traditional Bolivian perspectives. Her mom was stuck in her Bolivian ways unable to accumulate to new customs. She was getting consistent lectures from her mom stating, “We're not American, Andrea.”
Initially, Josephine is resistant to the idea of embracing her Italian roots, as she feels caught between two cultures and struggles to reconcile the expectations of her family with the pressures of Australian society. However, as she starts to explore her family history and bond with her Italian relatives, she begins to recognise the value and intricacy of her cultural heritage. When Josephine first meets her father, Michael Andretti, she is sceptical of his intentions and hesitant to form a relationship with him. However, as she gains more knowledge about his life and experiences, her perspective of him shifts entirely, leading her to a deeper understanding of her identity. Through her journey of self-discovery, Josephine comes to understand that embracing her cultural heritage is not about rejecting her Australian identity, but rather about finding a way to reconcile the two.
Their lives contradicted Jack’s greatly because his conservative father often talked about how suffering was the key to being a good person. “ One thing I do know,” the Queen went on. “ To ignore the joy while it lasts, in favor of lamenting one’s fate one’s fate, is a great crime.” (349) Here he learned that bringing joy into someone’s life and keeping it bright in his own is the greatest
Then on to Milano at eighteen. Kathleen turned twelve.” James sets himself up as the figure that desired to control Kathleen’s future, whereas Kathleen is in the place where the only skill trait she possess is her ability to sing. The second piece of literature that stood out for James is Freud’s theory of the “Dark continent”, and how James sought to understand why Kathleen acted the way she
Sleep is symbolic for peace and harmony. However sometimes the war you face while awake can haunt your sleep. The protagonist Antonio (Toni) in Bless Me Ultima by Rudolpho Anaya is forced to face the differentiating cultures and influences projected by his elders. His parents attempt to live their dreams through Toni but only cause the development of the opposite within Antonio. The conflict Toni faces has such a tremendous impact on him that it besets his dreams.
Although she does not offer subjective opinions on her experiences, these experiences clearly affect her in a negative manner. She attempts to disconnect herself from the world around her, but instead becomes a silent victim of the turmoil of the chaotic
While she was at her party all she wanted was people to be by her and give her all the attention. Christina is dependent on her mother after everything her mother has put her
Then she scolds herself. She should thank her mother for leaving,” (p. 24) from which Nazario takes a severe circumstance of Belky not seeing her mother and making it relatable by showing Belky’s guilt for feeling resentment toward her mother when her mother is making grave sacrifices to care for
The most common, widespread epidemic in adolescent is the lack of self-esteem. If a teen loses confidence, they may engage in self-destructive views. To try to combat the lack of personal confidence, Canada and other individualistic countries emphasize being unique. In the short story, The Metaphor by Budge Wilson, Charlotte lives under the rule of her stern mother. Through her mother’s criticisms, her lack of confidence, and her desire to fit in with the community, Charlotte is shown to be insecure.
He was in a hopeless situation, he was unable to fight back against the one who basically caused his father to die, because of this hopelessness and the trauma he had endured he had nothing left to react to other than continue to move on and fight to stay alive. This social change and the society he was living in at the time people became accustomed to the constant death that they felt guilty but they had to keep on moving, it was everyone for themselves. They had little to no power to fight back. He couldn't get
The memoir can be relatable to young adults, as young adults face many challenges growing up. Young adults face a plethora of issues and to know that they’re not alone , and somebody else faced the same problems or even worse problems ,may help the youth find this memoir relatable. The entire memoir is about Jeannette struggling of her irrational family. Jeanette family never stayed in one place and when they did the conditions were poor. Jeannette mentioned “Instead of beds, we kids each slept on a cardboard box, like the ones refrigerator get delivered in”.
Set in nineteenth century Black Hawk, Nebraska, Willa Cather’s novel My Antonia is the tragic, yet hope-filled memoir of Bohemian immigrant, Antonia Shimerda, as recounted through the memories of her childhood friend, Jim Burden. Arriving in Nebraska with her family, Antonia’s life is hopeful. However, the infertile prairie land disheartens her father causing him to take his life.
Jimmy Blevins, fatally shot, provided John with intuition about the importance of companionship. His death also provided knowledge of the consequences of the decisions a person makes. Although John had not known Blevins long, he felt a sort of responsibility for him, especially because he presumed he was younger than him by a couple of years. Even though their relationship was not a very close one, nobody wants to see anyone be executed for a mistake that was made at such a young age. This event saddened John, and made him feel about about, and even regret Blevins’ fate.
Margaret Atwood’s short story, “Lusus Naturae” portrays the story of a woman who has to face the problem of isolationism and discrimination throughout her whole life. In this short story, the protagonist very early in her life has been diagnosed with a decease known as porphyria. Due to the lack of knowledge at the time, she did not receive the help required to help her situation. Thus she was kept in the dark, her appearance frightens the outsiders who could not accept the way she looks, slowly resulting in her isolationism physically and mentally from the outside world. This even caused her to separate herself from the only world she knew her family.
Her personal experience is socially and theoretically constructed and emotions play an essential role in the process of identity formation. Her identity is not fixed, which is portrayed by inquisitiveness that her own mother and Aunt thought she was possessed, enhanced and made this story an enriching experience. The family is the first agent of socialization, as the story illustrates, even the most basic of human activities are learned and through socialization people