Growing up in a single parent military family I spent a lot of time away from my mom. When she would have to go away, my sister and I would stay with our mom’s friends or co-workers for weeks at a time. So when my husband came home, and told me that he thought joining the military would be a good move for our family, it was a difficult decision for me. However, we were struggling in our current situation. We were young parents without high school diplomas trying to make it on our own with our two daughters, and it was becoming harder and harder to find a steady job to support ourselves. I knew that we needed to do something to better ourselves, and provide our children with a fair opportunity to choose a direction for their lives. We made the …show more content…
She had two girls who were around the same ages as my daughters. She had noticed that I was setting up my home for family child care and approached me about having her daughters come to my home. She explained to me how hard it was for her as a single parent soldier living so far away from her family support system. She mentioned that she was under constant stress, and worried about where her daughters would stay during her next field exercise. I told her about my childhood growing up in a single parent military home, and explained that that was exactly the reason I wanted to open a family child care home, and that I would love to care for her girls while she was away, and she wouldn’t have to worry about where they would stay anymore. I explained to her that if she needed to stay late at work she could just give me a call and it would not be a problem. If I had something to do after normal working hours, I would take the girls with me if it was alright with her. I remember seeing a look of hope on her face. She wasn’t sure if it would work out yet, but I knew that it would. Our families became very close. Her daughters stayed with my family for weeks at a time on multiple occasions. I provided care for the family for three years before they moved to a different base. It felt good to be helping, and to know that the parent was no longer stressed about where her children were going to go if and when field exercises came up, or if she was required to stay later at work. She already knew they had a safe, loving place to go. Providing this comfort for her and her children was what going into the family child care business was all
What were the conditions of the home? Ms. Winters reported that she hasn’t been to her new home…. Home is normally clean.. Parenting skills?
Not once during my childhood was my dad there. He was rarely there physically, as he was deployed eight times while I was growing up. But more importantly he was not there emotionally. It was not until I was 15-years-old and my dad had
For many, the military is a form of an escape. Whether it is financially, mentally, or emotionally, they want an escape from whatever it is they’re dealing with. For Eric Robbins, this was the case. He grew up with poor parents who were both struggling with addictions. He knew he wanted something better for his life, but he also knew there was no way he’d achieve that unless he joined the military.
She then would deliver papers at one in the morning to help my father give my brother and I the best life we could have. She gave up her free time to pay for school, out of school activities, and Disney Vacations every year. I remember overhearing my mother crying because she was so
It was only a matter of time before we knew my brothers would answer Americas call. Two of my brothers joined the military before 9/11 happened. Shortly after that day my oldest brother decided to join. He didn’t want his little brothers to feel alone. One by one they all started to receive deployment orders.
Fall Hike in October I’m running out of my house, slamming the door behind me and shouting, “I’m free!” at the top of my air-filled pink lungs. I get a few weird looks from the neighbors that are outside and a few from even the one’s inside but they’re used to my usual crazy outbursts. I don’t know if I should be worried by that or not.
Growing up in Iraq in the era between the gulf war, Iran war, and Iraq war with the United state was a challenge for me, but it was not harder challenge than all what my parents went through to keep me and my siblings safe and sound. My mother is one of the strongest people that I have came cross in my life. She was and still the best mother, teacher, and my best friend. She graduated from Al Mosul University in Iraq as a Mechanical Engineer. Being a daughter of graduated mother will always push me to complete my education and go even further to earn my master degree too.
I remember that night as if it were crystal clear. The night in which an unfortunate realization took place, a reality check if you’d rather. It was the beginning of my freshman year of high school, I was at home along with the rest of my family. My older sister was doing homework and i was surfing through the channels, bored as usual. I recalled my mom being in the laundry room, so I proceeded to go in that direction in hopes of being entertained.
All of that detachment from her husband and just being home taking care of the kids that made her focus on Woroniecki. By taking care of her 5 children and being in charge of her house made her feel stressful. In this case, I know how it feels to be in control on different kids and a house at the same time. I have 2 nephews and 1 niece, there are times where my mother goes to work and comes back at 11:30 pm and my sister comes home at 9:00 pm from work. All of that time the kids stay with me and when my nephews and my niece come from school I need have their lunch ready, help them with their homework, get their dinner ready, help them to take a shower, and taken them go to bed.
I believe in the act of paying it forward, and treating others the way you want to be treated in the midst of it. Ever since I was a little girl, I always had a heart to help anyone that I was able to. I hated seeing others down, making it seem as if I was higher than them when I had nothing. I believed that if I was in their shoes, I would want someone to help me. Seeing homeless people on the side of the streets sad, hungry, desperate for just a bite of a sandwich or even a couple dollars to get them by for the next few days, made me realize how much I want to help people who are in need.
She loved my attitude and my wellness to encourage thoughts around me. I never in a million years thought I was getting to be truly working for the place I enjoyed being at all the
From the moment I was born I was considered a military brat, I was born in Hawaii at tripler hospital because my mom was in the army and stationed there, my biological father was in the marines. When my mom remarried when I was 7, she married a man who was in the Navy. Everyone thinks being a Military brat just means you know more than other people because you 've been more places and seen more things and you get a lot of stuff you want. This is not true at all. Coming from a military background means you never have stability, you are held to a higher standard than all the other kids, and sometimes it makes you want to be in the military and only focus on that.
This was my decision to make and here I am with nothing to show for it. After high school I went straight to basic training and did not even give college or anything else a chance. Here is where I realized a life changing decision like joining the Army is something that needs to be done for yourself and no one
Figuring out when it was the appropriate time to ask was difficult. Finally, after numerous attempts I was able to ask if she would watch my children, while I was in class. She said yes, which I already knew she would. The only negative part, was knowing that my mother wouldn’t say no even if she wanted to. A part of me wished that she would have offered to help me instead of me
In spite of the tough love, she was a very friendly woman. My mother loves working with children and telling jokes. When I was