This 1980 film portrays the accidental death of the older son of an affluent family, that deeply strains the relationships between a bitter mother, good-natured father, and the guilt ridden younger son (IMDb, 1990). It is crucial to acknowledge the behaviors within the family after this traumatic event occurs. The younger son, Conrad, shows his progress throughout the therapeutic process, while his mother copes by deeply burying her feelings. Conrad lives under a cloud of guilt after his brother drowns, and cannot shake the belief that he should have died instead of his brother (Rotten Tomatoes). This film demonstrates multiple DSM-5 diagnoses in Conrad as well. Conrad expresses the signs and symptoms of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder along with Depression. Conrad becomes very distressed when a train goes by as he is in the car with his friends heading to school. …show more content…
He does not have much of an appetite, especially when Mrs. Jarrett makes him French toast for breakfast, but he rejects the food and has zero desire for it. The point of Conrad trying to take his own life could be strongly linked to a sign of Depression. Conrad feels the guilty of his brother dying and internalizes the whole situation. In doing so, Conrad has feelings of guilt and irrelevance because of this self-blame and negative self-talk. The DSM-5 suggests that Depression is qualified by a change in sleep, suicidality, guilt or worthlessness, concentration, change in activity, etc. (Evolution Counseling, 2014). It is important to recognize that Conrad also quit the swimming team due to a decreased interest in the sport. Conrad was a notable swimmer on the team with exquisite talents. It is interesting to see his passion for the sport diminish in such a short period of time. As one should be cognizant of the negative impacts of labels, Conrad seems to fit a majority of the criteria for Depression and
After the death of his beloved uncle, young Max faces the hardships in a way that he becomes “a teenager with hard hands, blackened eyes, and a sore tooth” (188). The loss is too much for him to handle and it begins to build up in the depths of his heart. It continues to build until he is on his way to the basement and Death notices “the smell-no, the stench— of guilt” (159) seeping from Max on the train. Max is, without a doubt, emotionally tormented by the idea of leaving behind his family to find his own safety. However, through his strengthening in the basement, he begins to shape his torment into something that brings joy to others.
Deep Down Popular, is about a girl named Jessie Lou who has a big crush on a sixth grade soccer star, Conrad Parker Smith. Jessie Lou considers herself an unpopular geek. She doesn’t hang with the “in” crowd, but instead prefers to sit by herself. She is a shy girl and also known as a little bit tomboyish. Conrad, on the other hand, is very cute, uniquely dressed and the most popular boy in the sixth grade, all because he scored the winning goal in a big soccer game.
He is put in the hospital for trying to kill himself to escape his extreme survivors guilt. After returning home and to school he's recommended a psychiatrist named Doctor Burger. The first signs one sees of unhealthy behavior from Conrad is when his father ask if he's having trouble sleeping and Conrad tells him no. In this case Conrad is using silence and more specifically he's using withdrawal. An example of violence would be when Conrad yells at his father to give his mother ,Beth, the camera.
Surviving through the death of a loved one, especially a brother is not ordinary. Surviving once again through a suicide attempt is not ordinary. Conrad has already faced more than a teenager has should, being forced to grow up even more than he is able to so he can cope with the pain. This can also be seen with Calvin who is also trying to cope with a failing marriage and keeping his son alive. The stories show just how mirrored the two men are in their ways of action through their reversal of the coming of age story.
Loss is a feeling that everyone experiences within their lifetime. Although everyone grieves in their own unique way, Elizabeth Kübler Ross argues that there are certain stages consistent among all grievers. These stages are denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. Alice Sebold’s The Lovely Bones chronicles the Salmon family’s journey from the murder of Susie Salmon to the acceptance of her death. Jack Salmon is the character who most closely follows the five stages of grief as defined by Elizabeth Kübler Ross, and serves as a stereotype for dealing with grief.
Conrad, Beth, and Calvin all bear a tremendous weight, causing them to neglect to utilize proper conflict management (such as mutual purpose), exercise unhealthy management (such as silence and violence), and eventually escalate a problem that could have been solved. The
Conrad is on his school's swim team and tries to socialize with his old friends. They both know that their tragedies have affected them and that they will be different people in the end. They know that they will have to change. They can’t go back to how their lives were before the death of their brothers.
Ordinary People In the film Ordinary People, it is about the Jarrett family tragedy and how the results of the suffering plays itself out amongst the family a year later. Everyone must continue to keep a front of normality for society and for each other. Beth, Calvin, and their son Conrad are living in the aftershock of the death of their oldest son Buck. Conrad is overcome by so much sorrow and guilt to the point that he attempted to commit suicide which led him to spend a few months in a hospital.
The DSM-5 is a mental health publication published by American Psychology Association (APA) recognize in the USA as a great guide to classifying and diagnosing mental illness. Anti-DSM-5: Anti-DSM-5 claims that the way that mental health professional diagnose mental diseases is arbitrary because they based their diagnostics on their interpretation of moral rather than science. For example, until 1970, homosexuality was listed in the DSM. That would mean before then people who acted in a way that different from the mainstream of morality was considered as being a psychiatric disorder and paraphilia.
This is due to Calvin’s overprotection of Conrad, Beth’s narcissism, and how their parenting principles differ. This only creates more tension between the two. In Judith Guest’s, Ordinary People, Calvin’s overprotection of Conrad, Beth’s narcissism, and conflicting parenting principles leads to Calvin and
He has suicidal urges all over again, but this time he fights them and frantically makes an emergency appointment with Dr. Berger. He shows up at his office in a broken state in the middle of the night. Conrad sobs uncontrollably and everything comes pouring out: the whole story of the night Buck died and how he blamed himself, his mother’s hatred for him, and how he was never good enough. Dr. Berger listens and holds him like a parent would hold a child and finally, Conrad begins to calm down. Through psychotherapy, Berger has allowed his client to work through his guilt, anger, and grief successfully in a painful and moving emotional battle.
The cartoon is making fun of how it seems like everyone has a disorder nowadays, even little kids. Psychological disorders are harmful dysfunctions in which behavior is judged to be atypical, disturbing, maladaptive, and unjustifiable. Medical models, when applied to psychological disorders, assume that these mental illnesses can be diagnosed on the basis of their symptoms and cured through therapy. To classify psychological disorders, the DSM-IV, the American Psychiatric Association’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, is a widely used system. The DSM-IV discusses neurotic disorders, which are psychological disorders that is usually distressing but that allows one to think rationally and function socially.
One would make assumptions on the characteristics of people through their words and actions, so Conrad makes a system to find an accurate personality. As people “go through the day”, Conrad associates their words and actions with colours. These colours; white, black, red, yellow, pale, and light and dark associated with resembling characters and/or the situations . atmosphere. Colours Red Yellow Pale White Black
and he believes he is not guilty for his action. The narrator on the other hand is satisfied with the justification and decides to help leggatt. Conrad’s early life was also filled with such event where he even participated in smuggling of guns. one can imagine the life and misery he might have faced during those times. All this commotion and toil among the humans are reflected through the character of leggatt.
She became very confused and angry, which cause her to go up to him and confront him. She assumed that he was being cold to her because he didn’t want to face the feelings he had for her. Belly soon found out that Conrad wasn’t being rude because he likes her, but the woman who raised him was dying. People deal with grief in different ways, most people are like Conrad and are angry and distant from everyone. My grandma passed away two years ago and I was angry.