The ideal room for a teenager is one that has walls cluttered with posters or quotes of famous men and women. Every morning a teen wakes up and is surrounded by images of those that he or she admires and goes to sleep with the idol like figures watching over him or her. Everyone has a role model that they look up to whether it be a friend, a colleague, a stranger, or a super star. One cannot help but look at the life of another and attempt to model one’s own life after the other. Following someone else is how humans have survived, one sees what works and begins to do the same. However, many follow and model their lives after the wrong people or the wrong crowd, and because of this it is essential that parents or guardians take up the form of …show more content…
Whitelock one recognizes the need for a child to admire his or her parent. A parental role model allows a child to learn, understand, and succeed. From a young age children are taught how to handle their emotions, either by teaching themselves or learning from an adult. In Li-Young Lee’s poem “The Gift” the speaker learns how to deal with his emotion from his father’s gentle example. The father distracts the speaker from “the iron sliver [he] thought [he]’d die from” by telling him a story (Lee 5). Distracting a child from his emotions is a common technique that parents use. Elizabeth Shewark and Alysia Blandon found from their research on Children’s Emotion Regulation that using forms of …show more content…
In fact, many children grow up and become adults not fully knowing many things, but there are adults who do possess knowledge and understanding and it is their responsibility to pass their insight to others, especially their children. In the poem “My Father is a Simple Man” poet Luis Omar Salinas shows where true understanding comes from and how it can be passed on. The poem opens up with a common scene of an elderly father and an adult son walking into town together. One can easily assume that the son is an educated man because the son says, “We argue about the price / of pomegranates. I convince / him it is the fruit of scholars” (Salinas 5-6). However, even though the father sees his son’s point on pomegranates he comes back with the philosophical thought of the longevity and benefits of oranges which leads him to conclude that they are the better fruit. One can assume that the son has spent most of his life obtaining knowledge and forming ideas of his own, but through his walk with his father all the knowledge that he thought he had is proven false through his father’s wise words.. As the son walks with his father he begins to see that all he really needed to learn and understand were the simple facts in life and he would become the great man that he had hoped to be. Perhaps the son understood his father too late which is a sad reality that happens often. Shelia Suess Kennedy wrote an article
Her use of metaphors makes it easier for her son to retain the lesson she's indirectly providing and recollect when the time comes. For instance, Adams writes, “The habits of a vigorous mind are formed in contending with difficulties. All history will convince you of this, and that wisdom and penetration are the fruit of experience, not the lessons of retirement and leisure.” This metaphor compares fruit to wisdom and penetration, meaning that like fruit, wisdom and penetration are good for the soul and if not taken care of or appreciated, will spoil. Adams makes the connection that the experience her son is going to gain through his voyage is just as valuable to him as fruit is to the body, implying that he should take full advantage of his trip and all it has to offer.
There are many themes explored in the novel, The Simple Gift. Such as homelessness, Random acts of kindness and the importance of positive relationships. Discuss two of these themes and how they are presented through the characters of Billy, Old Bill, and Caitlin. The Simple Gift by Steven Herrick is a unique book in which stories are told in very short sentences like how short poems are written, the Simple Gift is a book about Billy Luckett and how he fled his alcoholic father who would continually disrespect him and to Billy he felt that this wasn’t his home, he wasn’t safe and he didn’t have any free-will to do whatever he wanted to do without being torn by his father for anything right or wrong he did, to him he felt that it was just a
When reading the poem, “The Gift,” by Li-Young Lee, it can be interpreted many different ways. Upon initial reading, I took the poem very literal, but then I thought deeper and dug beneath the surface to realize the true meaning as to what Li-Young Lee was trying to say. As the author is removing a splinter from his wife 's hand, he has a flashback from the time when he was seven and his father removes a metal splinter from his palm. Although he was probably terrified at first, his father distracted him by reciting a tale. Lee mentions in the poem that he does not remember what the tale was about, but only that his father 's voice was “a well of dark water” and his hands were “two measures of tenderness.”
Analyzing Parental Relationships Have you ever watched the show “Are You Smarter Than a Fifth Grader?” In modern education, younger generations seem to be surpassing their parents very quickly. In the poem “My Son Swears he has 102 Gallons of Water in His Body” by Naomi Shihab Nye, a son argues with his parents about what the reader can only assume to be homework in the form of a mathematical problem yet still deals with them despite the knowledge gap. In this poem, the conflict first appears whenever the child and his parents start arguing over a school problem in which he “did the problem [in school] and [his] teacher said [he] was right”
In life difficulties may arise, but an “instructive eye” of a “tender parent” is a push needed in everyone’s life. Abigail Adams believed, when she wrote a letter to her son, that difficulties are needed to succeed. She offers a motherly hand to her son to not repent his voyage to France and continue down the path he is going. She uses forms of rhetoric like pathos, metaphors, and allusions to give her son a much needed push in his quest to success.
Without a doubt, all teens can learn from the author’s valuable lesson of how with great responsibility comes great
The argument over a woman’s right to choose over the life of an unborn baby has been a prevalent issue in America for many years. As a birth control activist, Margaret Sanger is recognized for her devotion to the pro-choice side of the debate as she has worked to provide sex education and legalize birth control. As part of her pro-choice movement, Sanger delivered a speech at the Sixth International Neo-Malthusian and Birth Control Conference in March of 1925. This speech is called “The Children’s Era,” in which she explains how she wants the twentieth century to become the “century of the child.” Margaret Sanger uses pathos throughout her speech as she brings up many of the negative possibilities that unplanned parenthood can bring for both children and parents.
How instead of the parents setting an example for their child, it is the parents who "must learn from you dead". The natural order has been disrupted and the image of how life should be is now broken. 'The Pomegranate ' on the other hand, tackles the struggles and inner conflict a mother endures knowing her child is growing up and will soon leave. She has no choice but to accept this, otherwise she will "diminish the gift" of life. All she can offer her daughter is what she has learnt from her own life experiences.
On the other hand, teenagers ought to escape the confines of bland jobs and occupations, and open themselves up to a new world of opportunities and possibilities. The struggle of man, as adolescent, is epitomized in the final quote from Sammy: “my stomach kind of fell as I felt how hard the world was going to be to me hereafter”
The experiences people go through impact the way the see world and those around them. Children are raised by their parents and witnesses to the triumphs and failures. When the age comes many often question their parent’s decisions. Some may feel bitterness and contempt while others may feel admiration and motivation. The “Sign in My Father’s Hands” by Martin Espada conveys the feeling of being treated as a criminal for doing the right thing.
Have you ever tried to bolster a child’s self-esteem by saying “You can be anything you want when you grow up”? What if you knew that in today’s society, saying this would increase disappointment; thus faltering a child’s self-esteem later on in life. Author Leslie Garrett, who wrote the article “You Can Do It, Baby!” in 2015, talks about the common phenomena of hindering a child’s opportunity of finding satisfaction in life, by encouraging them that they will grow up to be anything they want, without limitations. Garrett utilizes rhetorical devices to promote the emotional and logical perspectives supporting her claim; however, she incorporates a handful of in-text citations from scholars, psychiatrists, and academic professionals in order to persuade the reader of the article’s credibility.
He dedicates his life to learning and eventually obtains the knowledge
Becoming a parent is a task that cannot be taken lightly. It is a task filled with frustration, responsibilities and dedication, but is also filled with joy and satisfaction. From children learning how to behave to them going out with friends, rules, standards and expectations are set mostly by their parents. Parents make most of their children’s decision in the first couple of years from behalf from what they eat for breakfast from setting their curfew as they get older. As children began grow, they began to make their own choices and learn to deal with the consequence of their mistakes.
In the world, society has set standards most people follow. They must dress, act, and look a certain way for them to be accepted by others. Several do not understand that they are being conformed to be someone who they are not. Some movies challenge others to look beyond the standards of society. For example, in movie “Dead Poets Society”, Mr. Keating 's teaches his students to form their own ideas and opinions.
In a usual family, there are set roles. A father, mother, and children. Stereotypically, each role is supposed to have a set job- the father is in charge of the family, making the rules, the mother cooks and helps the children, and the children play. This stereotype is slowly changing throughout the years, and some could argue that it is different for their family. One thing that should be true in all families, is that the parents are good role models for their children, leading them in the right direction in life.