Love is arguably one of the most difficult abstractions to define. Most people know what it is, but it has different meanings for everyone. Love is one of the most covered topics in music, film, and literature, because of its inherent passion and complexity. C. S. Lewis, in The Four Loves, separates love into four distinct categories which emphasize its vast and multifaceted properties. Lewis’s classifications affirm that the love between a mother and her son differs from that between romantic partners. In his philosophical spectacle, Ethics for the New Millennium, the Dalai Lama Tenzin Gyatso argues the human nature of love and its tendency to prioritize the wellbeing of others over that of oneself. With the intricacy of love established, it must then be considered whether or not such a concept can be applied to technological entities. Futurist Ray …show more content…
The first type, Storge, is defined as “affection, especially of parents to offspring; but also of offspring to parents” (Lewis 53). This kind of affectionate love comes naturally, and Lewis deduces that it is the most humble of loves. It is not possible for computers to experience Storge with their human owners, because they are not genealogically affiliated with them. It is, however, possible for sentient technological devices that were produced together to share a distorted familial bond, if only at the primal level. The next classification of love is Philia, or friendship, which, conversely to Storge, is viewed as unnatural. This is due to friendship being a deliberate act in that one must actively seek out his or her companions. If someone decides to purchase a strong artificial intelligence machine, he or she has the opportunity to form a genuine camaraderie with it. Computers that possess full awareness are surely capable of exhibiting Philia love with a human or another device of similar
The advancement of technology that our society has been privileged with, is starting to take over human’s emotions and replace them with those of a robot. When it comes to the discussion of technology, I have mixed feelings because, in my opinion, we do have a great tool in the palm of our hands. However, I also think human emotions and actions are starting to become robot-like. We need to be able to process emotions so that we can better our understanding of not only each other but also ourselves. I strongly think society needs to evict the virtual world and come back to the real world although it is safe to say I personally have a love-hate relationship with technology.
Franzen’s article Liking Is for Cowards, go for what hurt, compares the concept of love with techno-consumerism. It argues on how the grit of love is still better than the perfection of an elegant piece of technology which is also referred to as the perfect erotic relationship. The piece’s primary purpose is to make people understand the contrast between consumer related technology and real life and how this techno consumer relationship allows its user to control pretty much everything giving people a false sense of power while what love gives us is grit but it helps us become a better personas proven in the bird anecdote given by franzen. I agree with franzen in entirety and believe that the new tech-consumer world has us “working in jobs we don’t want to do to pay for the things we do not need”.
The Modern age works reveal that love is an artificial, unrealistic desire as seen through money, status, and women. In the novel The Great Gatsby, F. Scott Fitzgerald characterizes a love as senseless false wish. In the end when everything was falling apart and they would have had to pay for the mess they created they ran away. “They were careless people Tom and Daisy-
In an article done by Psychology Today it says, “Love is a force of nature. However much we may want to, we can not command, demand, or take away love, any more than we can command the moon and the stars and the wind and the rain to come and go according to our whims.” This quote begins to illustrate a concept that is woven throughout Danticat’s novel, Krik? Krak. Danticat expresses the idea that love is a powerful force that endures through everything, including death.
How to Live According to Irving Singer Throughout Irving Singer acclaimed trilogy, The Nature of Love, the viewer can observe how he unveils rich insight into fundamental aspects of human relationships through literature, the complexities of our being, and the history of ideas. In his sequel, The Pursuit of Love, Singer approaches love from a distinct standpoint; he reveals his collection of extended essays where he presents psychological and philosophical theories of his own. The audience can examine how he displays love as he systematically maps the facets of religion, sexual desire, love from a parent, family member, child or friend. Irving explores the distinction between wanting to be loved and wanting to love another, which ultimately originates from the moment an individual is born.
As the story progresses, love is expressed in the novel. The author uses character perspectives to express the theme of love. Love is a common topic played in society. The many types of love include, love for an object or thing, family love, and the love for the
We live in a society that has increasingly demoralizes love, depicting it as cruel, superficial and full of complications. Nowadays it is easy for people to claim that they are in love, even when their actions say otherwise, and it is just as easy to claim that they are not when they indeed are. Real love is difficult to find and keeping it alive is even harder, especially when one must overcome their own anxieties and uncertainties to embrace its presence. This is the main theme depicted in Russell Banks’ short story “Sarah Cole: A Type of Love Story,” as well as in Richard Bausch’s “The Fireman’s Wife.” These narratives, although similar in some ways, are completely different types of love stories.
S. Lewis mentioned was: Storge the affection part of love. C.S. Lewis described that affection is the love that a parent has towards their children or children showing affection to their parents (pg.53). Affection was shown throughout the years as babies from our parents, and as our parents get older it’s the children’s turn to show the affection they gave us. My parents are not the type that show affection like with hugs or words, me and my sister get their affection by just having their presence there with us every day. Even though they do not tell us in person that they love us, we have heard it before from them and/or read that they do from like birthday letters.
Nothing says “human nature” like love and individuality. Part of what makes humans unique is our species’ ability to show compassion and caring for our peers and surroundings. Many people, particularly older generations, believe that the overuse of social technology has ruined the appreciation that younger generations have for the world around them. In Ray Bradbury’s stories, “The Pedestrian” and “The Veldt”, he gives examples of how technology could ruin our affiliations to what would be considered human characteristics. In “The Pedestrian”, Bradbury describes a futuristic world in which no one socializes or takes walks because they are so consumed with their televisions with the exception of one man; in “The Veldt”, parents using advanced
When the word love is heard, what comes to mind? Is it that special connection once shared with a long lost lover? Or maybe it wasn’t a lover at all but a friend, who not only loved you for you, but showed you how to love yourself. In the novel A Thousand Splendid Suns,author Khaled Hosseini portrays love in many different ways. Three vital themes concerning love outshines many of the themes throughout this novel.
There are many things that factor into reasons for loving someone. Often times when people think of reasons for loving someone, they only think about the immediate motives. People do not consider reasons outside the obvious. However, there are many hidden motives that cause people t love one another. Flannery O’Connor’s “Good Country People” and William Shakespeare’s “My Mistress’ Eyes Are Nothing Like the Sun”, show that love can be influenced by an ulterior motive, through the use of specific word choice and storyline twists.
His past experiences has led him to believe that love should be masked by lies that in a sense it should the truth should be a voluntary definition behind love. In Plato’s Symposium, Aristophanes’ delivers a speech about his experiences of have loved or being in love. Aristophanes’ speech captures how powerful the feeling of love, that since birth love has condition our lives involuntary and will remain so. Love to Aristophanes’ is a form of completion that a lucky couple receives once the meet each other. This completion is empowered by an enormous amount of love, intimacy, and affection that neither bonds can be separated.
The short story “What We Talk about When We Talk about Love” by Raymond Carver is about four friends- Laura, Mel, Nick, and Terri, gathering on a table and having a conversation. As they start to drink, the subject abruptly comes to “love.” Then, the main topic of their conversation becomes to find the definition of love, in other word to define what exactly love means. However, at the end, they cannot find out the definition of love even though they talk on the subject for a day long. Raymond Carver in “What We Talk about When We Talk about Love” illustrates the difficulty of defining love by using symbols such as heart, gin, and the sunlight.
The connections between characters on television often fail to emulate the actual compassion and warmth of true love, conveying an idea that love can be created superficially. Society must recognize that unless one feels a strong, deep, and meaningful bond that has been created over a long period of time, the connection that one may initially feel with another person may only go as far as lust. In the end, the eyes tell nothing of love. Love can only be found in the
Personal strengths are actions or tasks that a person can perform well. These strengths comprise talents, skills and knowledge. A person uses these traits and abilities in his daily life to accomplish tasks, relate with others, and to achieve goals. Everyone has their own set of strengths. Our personal strengths are that vital aspect that makes us unique as individual, and it is part of the value we offer to the world around us.