Ghada Kadoumi Andrea Zuck ENG4U May 10, 2023 Characters’ Conflicts That Shaped Societal Values In a world where people’s actions matter, many tend to shape society and its values through how they view themselves and others. As new characters are introduced within The Great Gatsby, societal values are revealed with the help of conflicts. Mainly the significant dispute that occurs by the objectification and the vivid difference in treatment of women demonstrated through Daisy the flower and Myrtle the shrub’s usefulness, husband treatments, and social hierarchy. Although both women are seen as objects, Tom’s treatment of Daisy because of her status demeans Myrtle's worth to nothing but an intimate doll. After murdering Myrtle, Daisy sits …show more content…
While Nick observes their interaction describing the atmosphere to the audience, “they weren’t happy, and neither of them had touched the chicken or the ale - and yet they weren’t unhappy either” (Fitzgerald 145). The couple partake in an abusive relationship, however, Daisy and Tom manage to turn an unhappy atmosphere to a bearable one because of the ability, comfort and societal elevation their marriage provides them. On the other hand, Myrtle is seen as nothing but a sex object to Tom that can be used and tossed anytime. The mistress's constant mention of Daisy triggers Tom to physically abuse her. Nick explains, “Making a short def movement, Tom Buchanan broke her nose with his open hand” (37). The mention of his perfect wife infuriates Tom into physically attacking Myrtle, uncovering his incapability of receiving criticism about his perfect life especially when it is coming from a woman he …show more content…
While Daisy cheats with Gatsby, Tom discovers their affair leading to a confrontation between her two lovers, he voiced, “Go on. He won’t annoy you. I think he realizes that his presumptuous little flirtation is over” (Fitzgerald 135). Tom is confident in his relationship with Daisy even after the confrontation, because of the power he has over Daisy’s well established and comfortable life. After bringing Gatsby down by emotionally manipulating and triggering him throughout their argument, Tom was able to regain the male dominance over his wife and her lover, as well as amplifying the higher role a man has in his family. Therefore, he unfolds the perception of the importance of main dominance in society by degrading women (Tripp 9). This guaranteed win gives Daisy freedom to do what she wants knowing that she will find her way back to him at some point. As the privileged Daisy experiences freedom, Myrtle is paying consequences for her actions and feelings. To strip her off from her rights, George Wilson locks up his wife after he discovers her affair with Tom. He explains to Tom, “And now she’s going whether she wants to or not. I'm going to get her away” (Fitzgerald 123). Myrtle loses her right to stand up for herself after instigating fear and discomfort in George. His actions cause Myrtle to devalue her worth and her importance
George is a selfless but clueless person who barely has a penny to his name. Tom, Nick and Myrtle travel to the city to the apartment that Tom and Myrtle keep their affair private. Myrtle's sister Catherine comes and eventually the whole group becomes extremely drunk and incapable of coming to reality. Later on Myrtle keeps talking about Daisy and how Tom should just dump her but Tom breaks her nose and tells her to never say Daisy's name ever again. Even though Tom is having an affair this shows that he does still care very deeply about
Tom becomes at risk of losing his relationship, even though from the start he was the careless one who became involved in many affairs. After the men learn about their wives’ affairs, they take action to keep their relationships in tact. Tom confronts and challenges Daisy about her relationship, while George abuses Myrtle and plans to take her away. Their plans to regain their wives’ loyalty backfires, however, and instead they damage their relationships even more. Neither of the men are really involved in their marriages until their relations with their women are on the brink of doom.
If Tom did actually love Daisy, then he would not cheat on her with Myrtle time and time again. As for Daisy, she's not at all in love with Tom at all. Daisy only chooses to stay with Tom for the life he can provide for her. “They had spent a year in France for no
Myrtle's sister Catherine states “when they get married they’re going west to live for a while until it blows over.”(34) Tom is a married man, and never made a promise to Myrtle that he would separate from Daisy to be with her. Myrtle is a side chick of Tom’s and she doesn’t want to believe that’s all. Mrs. Wilson shouted “Daisy!
He is revealed to be unloyal to Daisy and able to betray the trust of his wife. In the next chapter of The Great Gatsby, we are introduced to the mistress, Myrtle Wilson. We are given a dive into how this affair affects her life, which is at a very minimum. Myrtle's husband is revealed to be oblivious. Tom covers up his visits to the home with a car sale, revealed when Wilsons asks, “When are you going to sell me that car?”
However, there are even more connections to dishonesty and disloyalty that proceed far beyond Tom and Daisy’s relationship. Tom is even unfaithful to his mistress, Myrtle, as he makes a “short deft movement… [breaking] her nose with his open hand” (Fitzgerald 37) for mentioning Daisy’s name. This proves that Tom has no real love for either women. Domestic/dating violence is not uncommon in the real world - especially towards women - and many victims are blind to how abusive these acts are, as they are unable to see past the love for their partner. In fact, “85% of domestic violence victims are women” (Facts Domestic Violence #2) and “1/4 of women worldwide will experience domestic/dating violence in their lifetime” (Facts Domestic Violence #3).
An early display of Tom’s violence is when he is arguing with Myrtle about whether or not she has the right to say Daisy’s name. When Myrtle refuses to comply with Tom’s request, “making a short, deft movement, Tom Buchanan broke her nose with his open hand”(20). The scene in which this event takes place is in the beginning of the story and is probably meant to represent a typical day in Tom’s life. This shows Tom’s willingness to use violence over an issue as small as Myrtle saying a name. Furthermore, this violence is used by Tom to control Myrtle’s actions.
Myrtle is accustomed to living an underprivileged life where feminine power engulfs her, but Tom is too egotistical to allow Myrtle to speak with such authority to him. Similarly, Gatsby’s need for assurance from Daisy pressures her into revealing to Tom that she never loved him (Fitzgerald 132). Deep down, Daisy knows that she truly did love Tom once, but Gatsby’s assertiveness and persistence drives her over the edge to telling Tom that what the two of them shared meant nothing to her. Daisy’s attribute of being a pushover is revealed immensely because she refuses to stand up for herself. Daisy is used to enabling Tom to constantly control all aspects of her life, and that leaves her powerless in society.
Tom is seen to be a very racist person, and that is just from what he said about one book. Tom does not care about women either, he is a sexist person who only cares about himself. He broke Myrtle’s nose just because she kept saying Daisy’s name even though he told her to stop. More proof of Tom’s sexism comes from his affair with Myrtle. If Tom cared about Daisy he would not be seeing other women, it was also revealed that Myrtle was not the first person Tom had an affair with, which just proves this even further.
Tom’s goal in every relationship is domination because when he loses command and control he feels weak. When Tom finds out Myrtle plans on moving west and Daisy no longer loves him, he sees that, “His wife and his mistress, until an hour ago secure and inviolate, were slipping precipitately from his control” (Fitzgerald 125). For the first time, Tom is deprived of this
WIth this affair, Tom is proving that he doesn’t truly love Daisy, therefore doesn’t want to change anything about their marriage. Daisy says, “Tom was God knows where... with God knows whom.” With Tom constantly getting calls from Myrtle, and cheating with her, it destroys his marriage with Daisy. He shows that he is complacent in his marriage with Daisy and needed something or someone else to fulfill his desires. Like Tom, Daisy wants something new and more than what she has with Tom.
Tom Buchanan is an arrogant, controlling man, who does what he wants not considering about how his actions influence those around him. Tom is also the earliest person to use physical violence in the book, striking Myrtle in a fit of rage when she would not stop shouting Daisy 's name. "Some time toward midnight Tom Buchanan and Mrs. Wilson stood face to face discussing, in impassioned voices, whether Mrs. Wilson had any right to mention Daisy 's name. "Daisy! Daisy!
Just like Daisy, Myrtle chooses money over love. She cheats on her husband George with Tom. Myrtle was a woman from the lower class who desired to be a part of the higher class. Tom spoiled Myrtle and gave her the lifestyle she always wanted. She belittles her husband and talk bad about him because he is not at the top of the social ladder where Tom is.
Tom also has a big connection with Nick as confides in him to keep Myrtle a secret. With Myrtle as a lover and uses her for his pleasure and enjoyment but this soon creates drama with George Wilson. His involvement with Myrtle is a secret that Nick knows about but Daisy doesn’t know anything about Myrtle which
In The Great Gatsby, Tom sacrifices the marriage he has with Daisy by pursuing an affair with Myrtle Wilson. However, it can be argued how big of a sacrifice it is that he made as in the 1930s, it was common for upper class men to have a mistress as well as a wife, and it is suggested that Daisy is aware of the affair but remains with Tom anyway. Tom’s physical power is exhibited through ‘“Daisy! Daisy! Daisy!”