The short stories, "Rules of the Game" by Amy Tan and "Royal Beatings" by Alice Munro are both about a young girl dealing with a mother/ mother figure daughter relationship. The stories are written from different points of view. Tan wrote the Rules of the Game in first-person and Munro wrote Royal Beatings in third-person omniscient. Although the authors use different points of view they still make us feel the tension build between the protagonist and their mother/mother figure starting with a vulnerability which leads to misunderstanding and grows to resentment that turns into disrespect and finishes with punishment. It is often said that a girl’s first friend is her mother, which is true in most cases. Your mother is the one you tell your …show more content…
The mother is older and has had different life experiences and the younger daughter feels that the mother cannot understand what it is like to grow up in the current time. In “Royal Beatings” Munro actually describes the difference between Flo and Rose’s life in detail. In “Rules of the Game” we can only infer the differences between them by how Waverly describes her mother comparing the Americans with Chinese people. “Chinese people do many things,” she said simply. “Chinese people do business, do medicine, do painting. Not lazy like American people.” (Tan 1425) As the stories continue you can see resentment growing in both protagonists Rose and …show more content…
In the “Royal Beating” Flo lists all of the ways, she feels that Rose has been disrespectful towards her (Munro 1134) and then goes and gets Rose’s father to punish her. Once the punishment has been dealt they go back to normal and their lives go on. In “Rules of the Game” the way Waverly describes her mother’s reaction you know that she is very angry at her. “My mother’s eyes turned into dangerous black slits. She had no words for me, just sharp silence.” (Tan 1430) And later when she gets home her punishment is isolation, “We not concerning this girl. This girl not have concerning for us.” (Tan
It’s as if she is too worried about her hat than she is her own kin! This has to be a representation of Flannery O’Connor’s relationship with her own mother because when one thinks of a grandmother it’s often associated with love and protection not selfishness and inattentiveness. O’Connor felt as if her mother simply did not care about her, and the only time her mother even bothered to talk to her was to correct the wrong in her life. Flannery feels like life is taking her off to kill her, and all her mother does is sit there caring about her
The play version of The Diary of Anne Frank tell the story of a 13 year old girl who goes into hiding in an attic for over a year. In this play, Anne lives in a very crowded attic with “family” that doesn’t always get along. Similarly there is a teen boy who wrote a story describing his struggle in staying alive during the same time period, the holocaust. In Night Elie Wiesel struggles to stay alive during his life in the concentration camp without all of his family being there with him. Although Elie and Anne are in different settings and have different ways they treat their mothers, both share a great bond with their father.
but she isn 't telling her mother. “ It was hard to imagine her mother doing anything that could
When you decide that success is something you want out of life, there should be an expectation of sacrifice, as well age is no exception. Annie John is a 17 year old from Barbados, she's the main character in the story, “A Walk to the Jetty” by Jamaica Kincaid. Marita is a 12 year old from the Bronx, NY, and is the main character in the essay, “Marita's Bargain” by Malcolm Gladwell. These two girls are completely different but oddly enough the same as well. In this essay I will be justifying and or explaining why this is so.
The interactions between Waverly and her mother in the first three paragraphs suggest about their relationship as a game, childish, and knowledgeable. For example, the interactions depicted in the opening paragraphs of “Rules of the Game” suggest that Waverly and her mother might see their relationship as a “game” that each wants to “win”. Both of them argue with each other. This could be seen as a possible affection for each other since they both care. In addition, it 's a childish relationship also because Waverly tries to get her mother to buy her “salted plums” by crying in the store.
In Fences, by August Wilson, Troy’s selfishness makes him a tragic hero because it causes him to make decisions that hurt not only himself but ultimately the people who he loves most. Troy’s inner selfishness is the sole reason for his affair with Alberta, and it is what eventually triggers the split in his family. When trying to stop the metaphorical bleeding caused by his affair, Troy characterizes himself with Rose as “we”, to which Rose responds with, “All of a sudden it’s ‘we.’ Where was ‘we’ at when you was down there rolling around with some godforsaken woman?
Scott Monks introduces the reader to his book about boys and gangs, growing up in an area where it is a norm to be in a gang and leadership in a gang. Introducton: The story of the book, Boyz “r “us deals with Mitchel, (Mitch) and gangs in the 1990’s in Marrickville, an inner suburb of Sydney. The toughness of boys growing up in extreme circumstances, poverty, one parent families, dysfunctional families. Juvenile delinquencies of boys and siblings, assaults and wilful damage.
Being Unique Before Fitting In During the 1950s, a majority of women were expected to live up to certain standards. Each member of the family was expected to act a certain way and fit into the mold of society. Woman in the 1950s typically did not look at a man on the side of the street to see what is inside a bucket, let alone even stop to ask what is in the bucket. But the mother in “Bucket of Blood” written by Katherine Waugh displays a different approach to life and her family. She displays how every family is unique and it is okay to be the one that stands out.
During this scene, it became clear that Twyla and Roberta had taken very different paths in life, which only intensified as the story continues and Roberta manages to marry into an affluent family, while Twyla marries a firefighter and works as a waitress. Interestingly, Twyla describes Roberta’s appearance, as she says that Roberta “made the big girls look like nuns”. I thought this was interesting because of how Roberta’s mother was introduced earlier in the story, as a very proper and religious woman, while Twyla’s mother, Mary, embarrasses Twyla with her loud, immature behavior. In a way, it seems that both girls had become reflections of each other’s mother, as Twyla chooses a more conservative path, while Roberta experiences a rebellious stage, before eventually choosing to marry into a wealthy community, which surprises Twyla. After meeting Roberta in the grocery store, Twyla remarks that “everything is so easy” for people like Roberta who “think they own the world”.
Your mother is there to protect you. She is buried there. And that is why we say that mother is supreme” (Achebe 1965). Okonkwo thought that if you show any emotion then you are weak and feminine.
She credits her success to her mother’s lesson of the power of invisible strength. She recounts how “my mother taught me the art of invisible strength. It was a strategy for winning arguments, respect from others, and eventually, though neither of us knew it at the time, chess games.” (p. 89) Waverly goes on to have a lucrative career as an attorney, while her mother 's power over her gradually wanes reminiscent of the Taitai’s power over Lindo.
Waverly’s mother, Mrs. Jong, is overly proud of her daughter’s status as a national chess champion. She boasts about this title whenever she can and cares about her daughter’s success rather than her feelings. She stifles her daughter’s voice in these matters, but Waverly later grows to have her own voice in her family. In “Rules of the Game,” Tan portrays Waverly as a strong, independent child by the way she works with what she has to be the best she can be, tricks her mother, and stands up for herself at the end of the story.
A wise woman once said, "The more a daughter knows about her mother 's life, the stronger the daughter" (http://www.wiseoldsayings.com/mother-and-daughter-quotes/). As any girl raised by their mother can attest, the relationship between a mother and her daughter is a learning experience. As young girls, you look up to you mother as your greatest role model and follow in their steps closely. In Jamaica Kincaid 's short story "Girl", a mother uses one single sentence in order to give her daughter motherly advice. Her advice is intended to help her daughter, but also to scold her at the same time.
Mother comes to the room out of obligation explaining the
Topics discussed in both books Sexuality in the novels The theme of sexuality is incredibly prevalent in both novels. There are multiple definitions of sexuality as stated in Dictionary.com ranging from the “possession of the structural and functional traits of sex” and “recognition of or emphasis upon sexual matters” to “involvement in sexual activity” (Sexuality, 2015). Though for Rose in This One Summer, the topic of sexuality is not as blatantly out there as it is for Gabi. With Rose, the idea of sexuality and sexual activity grows in the background of everything happening at her vacation, whereas with Gabi, the idea of sexuality and sexual activity is incredibly prevalent and is a main theme in the novel.