The affinity-seeking construct “describes ways people get others to like and feel positive about them. The research is grounded in the presumption that people attempt to generate liking by using various communication strategies.” (Bell & Daly, 1984). In other words, in our efforts to develop affinity with others, we strategically try to communicate our nonverbal and verbal messages in a positive way. Therefore, we hope they will perceive it in a positive light and get a positive response in return. When we use affinity-seeking in our interpersonal communication relationships, we tend to try to set a likeable tone that would hopefully result in a closer relationship. It is a whole lot easier to converse and be able to hold a positive conversation …show more content…
I had a few repertoires that were able to help me through this situation. My personality as well my previous modeling experience were able help instead of hinder me. Since this was my first time approaching a man, I had to have a clear-cut strategy. Mainly, what I really wanted was for me to be able to ask him out on a date or at least get his number.
When I approached him, I wanted him to know we had commonalities. I started with my modeling experience; letting him know that I recently became interested in modeling as a hobby. I let him know I was not very experienced with my poses and runway walk. He was very receptive when I was voicing my concerns about modeling. He helped me and gave me constructive criticism. I felt more confident to execute the perfect runway strut. When it was time to do our GLAM Exam, the feedback he gave me helped me win a place in a major scene in GLAM’s upcoming fashion show.
Overall, the experience in trying something new was way beyond my expectations. On top of me gaining more confidence in my walk, I was able to build positive affinity with one of my group members. Due to my affinity-seeking strategies’ I was able to successfully achieve my goal in grabbing his attention and getting his phone
Empathy towards others grows relationships, as Reuven
Having a positive characteristic for others with making a differences in people’s lives.
I hope that this preexisting fondness opens viewers up to my message and experiencing the
Possibly to better relate to them or that’s what we believe we are doing, yet, the conversation goes south and before you know it, the conversation is about
What learning activity or emotional response most took me by surprise during the last two weeks? The emotional response that took me by surprise during the last two weeks was the feeling of achieving the goals from the program. Even if we still need to make few changes to our presentation as per Stephanie’s suggestion. I feel that my learning experience during the whole MSBI program and especially during the practicum has already reached its maximum level, with the completion of our presentation.
He asked pertinent questions and was sharp, picking up on the events of the clinic life each day and did not complain about the heat nor circumstances. Watching him change from a boy to manhood has been a fantastic transformation. Watching and learning the man has been very rewarding. I know his heart, his character and his abilities and capabilities and with that background, I wholeheartedly recommend him to your program. He has the makings of a fantastic physician and practicer of the healing arts.
When you are being empathic, you are focusing on the other person from their own perspective, not your perspective. This enables you to be more compassionate. Empathy helps you focus on the ways you are similar to others instead of fixating on differences. This makes it easier to form more positive judgments and let go of the negative ones” (Bradly). Learning to feel empathy will help others form different connections with others, it also can provide more opportunity to obtain an open
I went to every school event, every pep rally, and every party just so that he would notice me, but in the end I always went home unnoticed. Not this time though, I had one more shot before high school ended to get his attention
I couldn’t wait to meet her in person at my orientation. When orientation came and I finally got to meet her, I was in for a pleasant start to my college career. She assigned me and all of her other advisees a project in
Realizing one's attributes is a challenging task. Entering my junior year of high school, I remember my head spinning, I knew I had a difficult year ahead of me; I wanted to soar, be successful, and be the best. Still feeling the sting of my parents' recent divorce, and trying desperately not to lose focus on my academics, I had no idea a late night
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Often after we accomplish a task, we congratulate ourselves, receive a feeling of satisfaction, and move on in the knowledge that we made a difference. However, that difference is not always as long lasting as we expect, and what we though was a finished solution could just be repeating the mistakes of the past. This is one of the primary talking points David Damberger uses to explain his thoughts on accepting and admitting failure. Over the course of his presentation, Mr. Damberger presents his topic though emotion (Pathos), credibility (Ethos), and logic (Logos) to clearly and effectively engage his audience in the benefits of failure.
I found it extremely interesting and beneficial to be able to talk someone that has the career that you wish to have down the road. Although, I knew my professional, I had never talked to her really about all of these aspects of the job and I feel I most definitely have more perspective for what the future holds. Since I knew my person, there was not any awkward, stranger conversation, however, I did reach out as if I was talking to a professional I did not know, as opposed to someone I see as a mentor. This was a great experience, and I feel that I would certainly be able to do this again in the
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I didn’t realize at the time, how intimidating it must have been to come into a close-knit group as an outsider. He was trying to not come across as shy, and I was unfairly judging the new kid. Fast forward 6 days. We were in Lexington, KY, and I was warming up to Matt. We’d had a few opportunities to chat and he was quite intriguing to me.